For the girlfriend to be more important than the wife and giving the marriage a chance (even given what has lead up to that point) suggests this relationship is several months old and was initiated very early after the separation. Not cool in my book. Sounds like you just said "fuck it" and then went and followed thru with absolutely no intention of giving the marriage a chance to heal. But hey if you didnt love her anymore and wanted out given the opportunity just be honest about it.
My Ex Wife Admitted She Doesnt Believe It's The Truth
by pale.emperor 42 Replies latest jw experiences
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DJS
Witness,
I've thought PE has been telling only half the story for a while. I never responded to any of his numerous Nancy Kerrigan whining "Whyyyyyyyyy' OPs previously, because I thought he needs to grow up and accept the situation for what it is.
But this site seeks to infantalize posters and marinade them in victimization.
I don't doubt PE is hurting, but there are a lot of immature, selfish actions and reactions in his words and stated behavior.
I think he is leaving out some key facts. And he needs to start looking at the man in the mirror for much of the reason he is where he is.
If he doesnt he will continue to find himself in similar situations.
You are welcome, enablers, mollycoddlers, victim marinaders and placaters.
You need me on that wall.
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Heaven
I am glad she sees JWs are not the Truth.
The first steps to resolving any problem are to accept there is a problem and identify what the problem is. I sure hope she can move on to the next steps or she'll be miserable her entire life.
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never a jw
But this site seeks to infantalize posters and marinade them in victimization.
DJS
If you are in the U.S., are you Dr. Laura?
It's been a long time since I enjoyed her tough style.
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freddo
DJS
A combination of Judge Judy and Nathan R. Jessup.
And that may not be a bad thing ...
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flipper
What Eden One said. Totally agree
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Vidiot
DJS - "...this site seeks to infantalize posters and marinade them in victimization..."
Dude.
Seriously?
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DJS
Vidiot,
Dude, Seriously.
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WingCommander
Look at the positive Pale Emperor: You may in fact be able to salvage a working, amicable, parental relationship with your ex-wife, in order to raise your daughter up properly. Your wife may very well tire of the JW BS, leave, and things may turn out all right, with you actually being friendly with her in the long run. (friends, nothing more.)
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Xanthippe
Agree with WingCommander. This is good news, PE. Your ex doesn't believe in the cult anymore, wants to fade and therefore not bring your child up as a JW. It's all good. WTF the arguments on here are about I don't know.