My 13 year old niece was put on probation for smoking a cig. 2 years later she was still on probation , they had forgotten all about her and her situation. Loving shepherds eh?
Of course she is now married and way out of the religion and bringing her 2 children up away from the cult.
I agree that baptizing children and then expecting them to make mature adult decisions and when they don`t to D.F. them ,along with the shunning , is nothing short of child abuse.
And they should be taken to task for it.
smiddy