Today I Dropped In To Field Service Meeting

by pale.emperor 14 Replies latest jw experiences

  • pale.emperor
    pale.emperor

    I just dropped my daughter off to her mum at her parents house. It was 12pm and I knew they meet for feild service there but my ex and I assumed they would still be out knocking on doors. I pull up in the street and there's quite a few cars parked up and the house was backed with Jdubs from my old congregation. They must have all been invited back for tea and cakes etc.

    Now, I'll be damned if any Jdub is gonna make me feel awkward in a free country so I get out the car. Set up the pram, put my 2yo in it and stroll up the driveway. Well, you've never see so many people exit a room so fast. My ex rushed to the door embarrassed and took the pram off me. I picked our daughter up and, like any normal father, talked about her asthma, when she last used her inhaler and what did the Dr say about her new medicine? My ex said "can u ring me later and talk then?" I said no, I'm here already. So she started talking to me about our daughters health n doc apppointents etc.

    Then two elders appear behind her just watching and listening. I said hi to them both. One walked away while the other stayed. The one who walked away I could hear in another room saying to my ex father in law "he's just trying to make us feel awkward he'll be gone soon".

    So I put my daughter down and she runs off to play with the JW kids. Then runs back and gives me a hug and a kiss then runs off again.

    As I leave other witnesses leave and have pretend conversations with each other as they pass me. I smiled all friendly and made solid eye contact.

    I couldn't help but stretch my arms, sigh and say "ooo sssshit"

    i feel a lot better.

  • Tallon
    Tallon

    Excellent PE. Well done for standing your ground and conducting yourself as any decent parent would.

    As you say, there is absolutely no reason why you should feel awkward, so let them squirm for their embarrassing behaviour.

  • hoser
    hoser

    Good for you!

    The Jws expect you to feel act shameful as you've done some terrible deed.

  • dubstepped
    dubstepped

    Yeah, YOU are the one trying to make them feel awkward (rolls eyes). F#@! those mf'ers with a hot poker. I can't believe someone hasn't gone postal under the absurd and bullying circumstances that they put people through. Good for you for bearing up under all of that and taking the high road. You're a good man. They're terrible human beings.

  • The Searcher
    The Searcher

    Well done for acting like a normal human being!

    All J.W.'s should be forced to face the brutal effects and reality of what their anti-Christian behaviour is all about - fear and control by their self-appointed hierarchy.

  • tiki
    tiki

    They are so weird....it amazes me how inhumanely they behave....if they hate you and wish to not even acknowledge your presence one on one that is one thing...but for the sake of the toddler...at least be civil to you. They are sending a sick message to the child...like that her dad is invisible. It is so sick the way they treat people who simply differ in religious viewpoint from them.

  • DesirousOfChange
    DesirousOfChange

    let them squirm for their embarrassing behaviour.

    EXACTLY RIGHT! I refused to shun people. Of course, if someone challenged me on it, I'd have pulled the "I'm and Elder -- trying to encourage, etc" bit, but the fact is shunning feels abnormal and cruel and self-righteous. Let them be embarrassed. They should be! . . Doc

  • Chook
    Chook

    As 1947 awake says let them suffer in their pagan practice

  • pale.emperor
    pale.emperor

    What they don't realise is they're making it easy for my child to see that it's an unloving organisation. When she's with me 3 days a week she's loved unconditionally and we speak to random strangers on the bus and she even got a fancy dress outfit for Halloween (she can't wait for 31st Oct). And we play learning games were she's showered with praise when she gets an answer right.

    What's she gonna get with the JWs?? "Your not good enough" "must try harder" etc

  • Saename
    Saename

    Good for you. Your daughter will probably see right through them as long as she keeps contact with you.

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