When I
was in, pedophilia appeared to be a ridiculous accusation by apostates. You can
get disfellowshipped for sex, drugs or even smoking... obviously, you will get
disfellowshipped for pedophilia. However, I had never considered that most
people who get disfellowshipped confessed to their sin. They'll confess to sex,
drugs and smoking, but pedophiles are a different breed. Most of them will
deny, even when confronted by their victims. And so, the two-witness rule,
coupled with the fact that elders don't call the police make it a pedophile
heaven. The end result is crazy when you think about it, cause there is no
doubt that they do hate pedophiles. The problem is their unwavering adherence
to their policies.
Hence,
the key is to tell them that there are flaws in the policies that work against
them. That no one doubt that they hate pedophiles.