Just watching this video about a bethel member, single again - gives advice at morning worship.
He tries to convince young 16 year old girls who visit bethel and eat in the cafeteria to marry him.
He offers the full blessings as wife of a prince in the new world and gives arguments that speak
for a fast decision... shocking stupidy.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s4udiaaRpAY
In another video of ex-bethelite (how women are treated) a bethel ELDER is mentioned who talked to brothers at the table and gave advice abouth marriage and said that it would be the best to marry a women when is as young and pretty as possible, (at 8:45) so you have the possibilty to TRAIN her and to MODE her in to what you want and get HER USED in the roles you set for her..... other bethelits made big errors and married older women 24,25.women that would have their own concepts of what bethel or marriage should be. All guys were smiling and agreeing. Women who have a lot of MOUTH, ATTITUDE and OPINON.
That contradicts the bible!.
The bethel elders are USING their women as willingful pretty puppets, and USING is the first step to "misuse". They not only disobey Christs command for marriage but teach young brother to USE their wifes.!