amiable atheist said: Your cherry picking
exercise gets a "cute" for naïveté
Interestingly,
Bible itself asks us to 'cherry pick' (1 Thess 5:21) because Bible contains more
of foreign bodies than truth. (Act 20:29; Mathew 13:24:30)
Even if
my conclusion is based on some story, acceptance helps me as it makes my life
relaxed. In acceptance, you don’t resist, hence saves lots of energy. Contrast this
with expectation and its attendant worries. Worrying about what might happen
(future), when the moment has not yet come for it to happen, takes away from us
the necessary energy to deal with it when it finally arrives. Living in
memories drains our energy; the past already happened and no longer exists,
except in our memory. We feed memories, not realizing that emerging
the memory in our mind distracts us from the present and weakens us. We
lose our energy when we relive an experience that already happened, and in the
end we feel disappointed, feeling a mental and emotional waste.