we have been through a lot, so things have changed. I am happier now with myself and he has gone through a lot also. We both have changed a lot of our ways and have opened a new door. Anyone who doesn't think that people can change is wrong. Things did go bad between us once, but now things are better...better than ever. I have turned my life around and so has he.
Good grief! This girl sounds exactly like I did when I was marrying my abusive ex. Let me tell you, that "change" lasted all of 7 months. Also, just my opinion based on my friends' experiences of miscarriage and abortion, but I do feel that counselling and contraceptive services should be de rigeur as aftercare in both circumstances. Here in the UK you can get NHS provided counselling but you need to be referred by your GP or OB. Usual protocol in both cicrumstances is that you'd just be given a D&C and sent home with a leaflet.