I remember, identifying such
hypocrisy when I was "in"; however, I didn’t understand at the time
how serious it actually was. I’d go on believing that such small harms were
offset by all the “good fruits” the watchtower was doing.
This flawed reasoning collapsed
after I read Raymond Franz’s books. It helped me understand that, in order of
priority, one should first live with these values and then preach
to others about it. Hence, preaching, building and organizing congregations are
not “good fruits” in and of themselves. The Pharisees were doing the same
things and Jesus called them out as hypocrites.
The fruits are how the
members of that religion live their day to day lives. How they display love,
charity, etc.
That is when I realized
that such hypocrisy was very, very serious. I could not pass this down to my
kids and I left.