I can tell you guys about a 100% true situation concerning the YMCA in my old congregation. I also want to add that this is a RECENT situation, literally as of 2 to 3 years.
There is an older sister in the cong, who NEEDS physical therapy for her knees, and legs. Her insurance would no longer pay for her physical therapy any longer. Its a shame because this therapy, supposedly really helped her. Unfortunately, this is a common practice of American insurance companies, where after an amount of time they refuse to pay for certain care.
Anyway, this sister learned to find that the YMCA in her local area, provided the exact type of therapy she needed FOR FREE. Some could even say, " this was a blessing from Jah ". Well, she joined and took advantage of the Y's free therapy.
From what I have gathered, she honestly didn't think it was "wrong", or probably it didn't even cross her mind. In fact she openly mentioned it to others in the cong. Well, word got back to the Elders, and she was spoken to, and told, THAT SHE SHOULD NOT BE A MEMBER AND RECEIVE THAT CARE ANY LONGER.
She was told that it is NOT approved from the society, and that it goes against Jahs' principles, or some bullshit like that. Also, that it was being part of an "unclean" false Christian organization.
This sister, and now her older husband, made it clear to the Elders, why she was going there. That she was simply getting free therapy for her ailment, and that it was really her ONLY option, other than paying THOUSANDS of dollars out of pocket, which was NOT an option.
It didn't matter to these Elders. They only cared about what "Mother org" said. They took into no consideration her physical condition, her welfare, or her financial issue.
So hypocritical for the Org to be in bed with the UN, but not allow a poor elderly sister to take advantage of free therapy at the YMCA. Shameful as always.
I assure you, THIS IS 100% TRUE. I PERSONALLY know this older sister. This absolutely did happen, and within a 2 to 3 years timeframe. This was in a cong in the NYC area too. Not some backwoods, or backwards cong, not in the "know"., making their own rules. Also, if I remember correctly, I believe it was even brought up to the CO when he visited, and he backed up the Elders decision.
Maybe in other congs, they do not care, and maybe in other parts of the country or world, it is a matter of conscience, but it was definitely FORBIDDEN in a cong in NYC, even when it concerned the very HEALTH of an older sister.