Would a brother who is an elder or ministerial servant be looked down upon or ostracized for endeavoring into high education?
The reason I am asking this question is because I know of a MS who went to and graduated college (US) with a Masters in Science and Engineering. He also taught these subjects at an adult education program. However, he was a temporary worker at Bethel for one year and worked for a couple of years in Regional Building. In conversation with him and a few other close brothers and sisters at an event about his background/experiences, he hinted that "no one from my congregation nor COs or DOs ever disapproved of what I've accomplished in my past re: educational-wise".
I'm mentioning this because I have attended college and obtained two degrees (Associates and Bachelors)--and received flack from quite a number of brothers and sisters, especially brothers, for this. In fact, one Bethelite tried his d@%*nest to break up me and another young brother who I was dating (and we were planning on getting married when I was in my late 20's) because of my educational status and racial background [I'm AA and Latina; he is Scottish/Anglo and Italian-- this story will be discussed on another thread in the near future]. Furthermore, I know and heard of a few other sisters who have college degrees and are shunned to a certain extent by others in their local congregations.
Is the due to the sexist mentalities in the org or maybe this bro is very fortunate not be persecuted for his life course?