Notalone, it is a shocking way to find out how wrong this religion is and I hope your daughter is doing well. I am glad that it did not destroy your faith.
Protecting the image of the organization goes before everything else, even the care of the young ones and they have misapplied scripture for their own means.
Being told to keep quiet about the matter and threatening you is not excusable.
Matthew 18:17 But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that ‘every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.’ 17If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, regard him as you would a pagan or a tax collectorBoroean Pickets is a great site and they reason on matters reasonably and with sincerity.