If we just suddenly start talking to DFed people again and use the Canada court video as our argument, what would happen?
You would be DFed, unless you are one of the privileged, elite, untouchable.
Those people can say "love doesn't hide anything, I'll meet with you in public". (Humble bragging to Randy M in a resent video.)
As for this peon, it would be their reason to get me out. Hence the aliases we see here a vast, vast majority of the time.