Hi,
Like Saename said this article is for the public. Not for the friends.
If they decide you should shun, you can make your own decision not to. If they decide to Df you, you can make your own decision not to be Df'd.
The org is trying to paint a picture that they don't control your life. That is what it appears in the beginning, but to those who are lurking or thinking of joining the JW's, don't be fooled. Those who are in be honest with folks about this org. That way they come in with their eyes wide open.
But on the other hand if you are needy, low self esteem, depressed, in need of any type of love (even though it's conditional love, for you it may be better than no love, then join).
The org is trying to appear warm and fuzzy on the surface but the under current is rules and regulations. The org is not fueled by love it is fueled by works.
Tor