Keep up the pretending. Don't get discouraged. You have a goal for the purpose of family communication. Don't let that azzwipe elder get you down.
Trust me............no JW reads this shit like we (apostates) do. After the last Cir Assm we attended we went to dinner with several couples and the conversation was "OH! What a great assembly!" I asked everyone the question of: What was your favorite talk or experience? ............................long pause...................... (other than "All of it.")
NO ONE could be specific! They just sat through 6 hours of "inspirational" talk and left without taking one damn thing home with them! IT'S A JOKE!
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