What was that GoT quote, "Nothing someone says before the word 'but' really counts" ...
He can't even say he loves her without finishing with effectively a "but ... not really"
He's always been an abusive cheater and always will be an abusive cheater, because people never really change their true selves.
Even in his book you see him putting the blame on his wife, as though it really is her failure that caused him to do what he was already doing before ever meeting her ... being a grubby little selfish toad of a man.