Back in the meat raffle of life!

by joannadandy 59 Replies latest social relationships

  • joannadandy
    joannadandy

    Azzy--You're a pretty smart chick too, I mean you look to me as a role model!

    Xandria -- hairless you say eh? *evil glimmer in her eye*

    Stephanus -- Yeah not to mention that whole different time zones, 20,000 mile problem~

    Katie --

    you have me as an example, I found my MR WONDERFUL! But as the saying goes I kissed a lot of frogs before I found my prince!
    Actually I do count you and Ona as an example that love still exists and is out there for anyone who is willing to take it. *bursts into "The Wind Beneath My Wings" in her best Bette Midler impersonation* Hugs to you--thanks for being such great people!

    Obi -- You don't have to worry--I have not become a hewoman man hater at all because of this. I just realize I have made poor selections and that there are good ones, like yourself, out there. As for telling the girl he was with. I already told him he needs to tell her because he wonders if he should persue something with her. As for me telling her--I'd like to, but I won't. I have washed my hands of him, what he does now is his business. I really don't see how he can be faithful to her when she is in Washington if he can't even be faithful to me and I live within driving distance. He cheated on his previous girlfriend too. And I knew that. Guess I thought I could expect better from him.

    Pepper -- Umm...yeah. Cheers!

    Shotgun -- Meat raffle wasn't implying I was looking for meat. Just meant I am once again single fighting with the girlies and boys in the trenches. And no. That was not the dude in the picture. He's a good little manwhore!

    Billy -- Thank you!! I appreciate it.

    That and the fact that you have your sense of humor is a lesson for us all!

    Yes, the day I lose it I will be worm food. I find myself hysterically funny, and my life more rolicking than a sitcom. I'll be the first to laugh at myself. I am a great stock-pile of material!

    Yeah--so I am going to the Liz Phair concert with him tomorrow night. (We bought our tickets three weeks ago--you know when I was still the shizznit.) So we shall see what happens. He hopes we can "stay friends" I am thinking, if he hadn't cheated and simply asked to break up, I would be more than willing and able to be his friend. But now--pretty much not possible. It just doesn't seem fair to me. I mean, you get your cake and eat it to? Besides I really don't want to watch him do this to anyone else.

    I shall let you all know how it goes.

    As the Jo Jo Bean Turns, same bat time, same bat channel.

  • joannadandy
    joannadandy

    Guess what I bought!!

    Trying to up my stock price...

  • not interested
    not interested
    Shotgun -- Meat raffle wasn't implying I was looking for meat. Just meant I am once again single fighting with the girlies and boys in the trenches. And no. That was not the dude in the picture. He's a good little manwhore!
    awwwwwwwww JO thanks for calling me a good little manwhore, but alas i have not been, I havent hung out with my aposta-sisters in quite some time.....
  • Tatiana
    Tatiana

    Joanna....I'm so glad you brought this back up. I was computerless during your breakup.

    You need to write a book about this. Seriously. You have a gift.

    As for men, I read what thunder said about setting boundaries. Believe me, that doesn't always work. I'm kind of like you in that I allow a man freedom. Like sports. Love sex. Love porn. Have g-string...will travel.

    And into each relationship, the first thing I say is, "I don't care what you need or want. Just ask me. But if you cheat, I'm gone." They all say they understand. It will never happen. They love me so much.

    They always do. Sorry. I'm jaded. I mean, you can be the most beautiful woman in the world. Look at Hugh Grant. Eddie Murphy. Richard Gere. It just doesn't matter.

  • Gadget
    Gadget

    Jo, you still in the raffle? What # ticket you got? I'm # 69.... And when we going shopping anyway?

  • joannadandy
    joannadandy

    Manwhore--you're still my favorite little manwhore! Don't you worry about how many hours you clock in...

    April -- You're such a sweetie. Let's be lesbians together! LOL!!

    Gadget--you just get your ass here I will handle all the shopping details!

  • Badger
    Badger

    "B as in Badger 69....B as in Badger 69..."

    Is that on your card?

    Don't worry, angel...you sound like a dream...some Minnesota boy or Texas tourist is going to need you to keep warm at night...

  • Phantom Stranger
    Phantom Stranger

    Jo, you have always seemed like a very sweet, nice person who looks lovely in all the photos I've seen.

    I am terribly sorry that this man did what he did. You deserve much much better - truly.

    I am now going to say something that may result in some of the members of this board wanting to have me neutered.

    I had several relationships in a row end badly - all in about the same amount of time, all for the same basic reasons, and all with the same basic type of partner. I didn't change this cycle until I really started searching out the reason I was picking these people. Yes, many men are pigs, and I am not apologizing for them or making their actions the fault of someone else - and the fact remains that what all my exes had in common was that I had picked them!

    I suspect that when you discover what it is that appeals to you about this type of guy (since you say that it has happened before) - whatever it is - you will shift it and create a wonderful relationship that is worthy of you. There is nothing "wrong" with you - you are wonderful. You may be able to improve how you pick men - this will involve looking at what you are attracted to, and why.

    I strongly recommend If the Buddha Dated by Charlotte Kasl. It's a great book.

    And by the way, say the word, and I'll kick his ass.

  • SLOAN
    SLOAN

    (((((((((((((((((((((Jo))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

    Girl, Did you bring this back up just for me???? I wasn't around for awhile and I missed this post. ( I was just telling a friend of mine today that exact same thing.)-------> I must have been one F%*#ing Bastard in another life. Paybacks are a bitch!!! Thanks for making me laugh. I can sooooooo relate!!!! And, don't feel like the Lone Ranger; I'm still on the meatmarket myself!! I'm tellin' ya, You, EYE and me, we would have a great time living together!! lol I got the bowl and the first box of condoms!! lmao Love you girl!! (any man would be lucky to have you) Chin up!! MUAH

  • Gadget
    Gadget
    "B as in Badger 69....B as in Badger 69..."

    Is that on your card?

    Badger, you've drawn me!!!!!

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