(((( Wasa ))))
Please know I feel with you and am so sorry you have to deal with this mess. Personal space and the feeling of a "raped" privacy can sometimes affect us more then we realize.
Conversly knowing there are so many who have survived such in different manners is a help as well. Give me a call if you like. Check your PM, I just moved and now have a new phone number.
I feel for you losing things that may never be replaced. It angered and sadened me to only read the words of your loss. The memories are still there with you perhaps you can while still fresh in mind make a list of those items and write the memories associated with them. Maybe this way you may sitll have some memories of those items taken from you which you can't replace.
Sorry it took it bit to respond. I have been in the process of moving for the last 5 weeks.
Know you are in my thoughts.
Many hugs
Cassi