by logansrun 29 Replies latest social relationships
Seriously dude, it's simple:
1) Be respectful (without being a kissass).
2) Ask questions about her, and listen to the answers while looking her in the eye(pick one - nothing worse than switching back and forth from L to R when nervous).
3) Make sure you don't put more than three sentences together without lots of prompting from her. After three sentences, go back to rule #2.
You're a good dude, you'll do fine.
I get so nervous about a "first date"! I want everything to be just perfect. I've only had a scant few, but have always ended up having a great time anyways.
Mike.
p.s. Can I make a suggestion? Seeing as Frannie's "pick up lines" thread got hijacked and crashed in a fiery mess, maybe we could give her a little respect and incorporate some of the bad pickup lines we used to get those first dates?
bradley, youve got nothing to worry about. i'm sure she'll be just as nervous as you. just be your usual charming self and you'll have smooth sailing. good luck!!
I just got off the phone with Bradley and he said the computer he was using crashed and he couldn't get back online. Poor thing...LOL!
What he wanted to ask was for some general suggestions as to what to do and say on a first date. I think he's gotten a few good ones already and I read them to him. He giggled like a fourth grade school girl! He's so gonna kill me for saying that. Hehe!
~Aztec
I doubt The Runner has a problem in this area. Based on Aztec's comments about him, he has his act together! Maverick PS I posted this before I saw Aztec's comment...I must be a psychic...or psychotic..one of the two!
Well! Back on line...whew
Yes, I, J. Bradley, at the age of 26 has finally "officially" asked a member of the opposite sex out "for coffee.....and cunnilingus" (j/k about the coffee part )
Seriously, what do you say? I've got some good suggestions here...I don't think this will be a real problem.
Now, how do I end the evening? A hug? A *gasp* kissy kissy? Cheek? Tongue? I know, no tongue. Any other suggest-o-rama's?
Just be myself? How about my best self? Yeah, that's it.
B
Don't ask people on a net forum how to end your date.
At the end of the date, give her the smooch test, One nice, gentle kiss! No gross stuff! If you get the cheek, bye-bye, she's out. She should give you a nice kiss back. Then walk away and don't spoil it by talking! Maverick
I would say 'relax' - what's the worse that could happen?
One word of advice - don't talk about sex.
tal
(hates dating, what a bizarre ritual)
Bradley,
You'll do fine....
Just don't try to suck her toes! (<<--oops! Poor emoticon choice, perhaps!)
out
