There were several times when I was inside the congregation that I met up with a problem in my life and on mentioning it at a group I would be told to do my own research about it.
Of course, they didn't mean for me to research worldly material for the answer but to use the WT indexes and look into the WT Society magazines.
It was only when I started to do my own research outside of the WT that I began to see the limited scope of the Society's magazines as all problems usually fell into the category of 1. read the Bible, attend meetings, go out on the work, and pray; or 2. this isn't going to be fixed now but in the New World God will sort it out and the former things (what you are suffering from now) will not be called to mind.
I wonder how many people still in are struggling and are not being encouraged to research away from the organisation where they would receive practical and valuable advice?