Hi, my name is leacy and I am 41 years old. I live in California. I attend the Rancho Santa Margarita congregation. I am looking for a brother that has things in common with me and that is spiritual. He doesn’t have to be an elder or a ministerial servant, but he has to love Jehovah wholeheartedly someone around my age between the ages of 35 to 45 and someone I would be attracted to I am only attracted to white brothers that are tall, brown hair, blue eyes, and a beard is 
a plus I would really like to get to know someone I’ve been through a lot, but I have a lot to give.
I want a marriage mate that’s a brother
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Lace83
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joey jojo
Just about everyone here is an apostate - so unless you're looking for a walk on the wild side.....
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Ron.W.
Well, off the top of my head, there's this newly single guy who like you has 'been through a lot' called Lloyd...
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BoogerMan
We're NOT apostates. That's the org's pejorative description of anyone who disagrees with their dogmas.
We're heretics.
Hope you find the real truth before you find a JW husband. Try examining what you're told is truth. (1 John 4:1)
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Biahi
This is a site for ex JWs and those who question the teachings of Jehovah’s Witnesses. This is not a dating site. You are welcome to stick around and read!
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Anony Mous
I actually check a lot of your boxes—except for eye color. Tragic, I know. And then there’s that whole pesky California-to-here distance thing and the fact I haven't had multiple partners in quite some time… polyamory thrives on flexibility though, and you didn't exclude that possibility...
I'm technically still a JW, so I even check that box, but I've stepped into a world where many ‘no’ turn into ‘why not’ - stepping outside your comfort zone isn’t just freedom, it’s an awakening.
But hey, why not stick around and dive into the discussions here? The best connections (romantic or otherwise) tend to come from shared stories, I'm sure you have some questions, changes and doubt you want to share and ask about.
And in the mean time, feel free to ask for some references to places that can give you some relief (and education) for your desires, from what I hear, guidance now says those are no longer prohibited.
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SydBarrett
If you're seeking an unmarried, early middle aged man, brain dead enough to still be a JW, the only box you can realistically expect to be checked is "has a pulse".
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liam
I'm very tall, I'm young, and I won the genetic lottery, plus...... I'm rich, and I have no desire to ever get married. Read my old posts.
The USA laws favor women in a divorce, even with a pre-nup. Smart rich young men DON'T GET MARRIED.
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StephaneLaliberte
So, you're looking for a JW brother who is:
- 35 to 45 years old
- white
- tall
- brown hair
- blue eyes
- beard
So, nothing about personality, character, interests (hobbies), etc.
Your shopping list would be a better fit for Tinder, you know, looking for a one night stand? I wouldn't expect such criterias when seeking for a husband!
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liam
Your shopping list would be a better fit for Tinder, you know, looking for a one night stand? I wouldn't expect such criterias when seeking for a husband!
I'm not knocking anyone here who has been happily married to the same woman for the past 30-40-50-60 years
But the world has changed.....the Culture has changed-....Society has changed.
My generation has Dating apps.
We are not confined to your local High School, or you local town. The world is our oyster. I've dated girls from Japan, Spain, Ukraine...Yes Ukraine, form Russia, all over the world. From 18 years of age to 24 the oldest. I've had to pay for their plane ticket because I hate flying, but this is the way the world works now.
If a young man is looking for a "Conservative girl that loves Jesus" you're out of luck. They may say they are conservative and they may vow they follow Jesus, and they may convince you that all they want is a loving husband, children they can raise in a Godly Home, that she wants to stay home and be the Home Care Taker. but her actions will speak the complete opposite. And if you're not smart enough, she is going to trap you like a Venus fly trap and you're the fly.
The real good looking girls that look like models don't want to get married, they just want to have fun, they want to sleep around with as many good looking guys as possible. They are not interesting in the average guy that is 5' 9 inch tall, who is morally clean, courteous, gentleman, chivalrous. Young very attractive "Girls" not women, want the tall-good looking, Chad with plenty of money to splurge on her.
The world is not like it was 20 years ago, it's a completely different monster. And the average good guy will do better if he becomes a priest or buys a female robot for his needs.
Sorry that's reality in today's world, but humans choose that route, now we got no choice but to live with it.
Look at this video, it tells the story very truthfully of today's internet society.