First of all, God is not partial. "Abraham believed God and it was accounted unto him as righteousness". Abraham wasn't European. Isn't it grand that the basis of salvation is belief and not performance? - "By the works of the law shall no flesh be justified". That way, even though I can't always be obedient, I can always believe. Wow! That seems very reasonable.
Then, to get admittance into God's family (which triggers his responsibility toward us as children and heirs) all you have to do is ask Jesus for it. James said, "ye have not because ye ask not".
Instead of making peace with God, we were all trained to offend God as JW's. Jesus said over and over, "Come to me". So what did we do? We went to Jehovah instead.
God says that membership in his family is a gift. So what did we do? We worked for it instead - which only created more debt to pay off to God. We were cursed for our hard work for Jehovah. (Romans 4: 4)
We listened to and believed a two-tier salvation that the apostles never taught and were doubly cursed by that too. (Gal. 1: 8-9)
God warns over and over in his word not to put our trust in man. So what did we do? We put our trust in a governing body of men.
Jesus told us to receive his new covenant in the bread & wine at the Lord's Supper ceremony. So what did we do? We publicly rejected it at each Memorial even though Matt. 26: 27-28 specifically says it is for the forgiveness of sins.
I get it that some xjw's have a problem with God because of what the WT did to them and their families. I lost dozens of relatives myself. But, look at all the curses we brought upon ourselves! Even though I was born into it as a 4th gen JW; I still have to face the fact that I am ultimately responsible. Only by being responsible for my past can I start to be responsible about my future. We are not victims, we can still choose. We can get off the crazy train of unbelief towards God and will ourselves into his family simply by believing him.
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life."
The offer to trade places with us is still available :
"For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him."
Jesus wants to be our scapegoat, if we let him. Only then can we expect anything more than general grace from God in this life.
On the other hand, He makes some very steep promises for those who do choose to believe him:
"There is no man that hath left house, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my sake, and the gospel's,
But he shall receive an hundredfold now in this time, houses, and brethren, and sisters, and mothers, and children, and lands, with persecutions; and in the world to come eternal life".
I have experienced over the last 18 years that Jesus exceeds his promises.