Have a baby, then get married, no problem for a jw! But to celebrate a birthday for a lovely child is a huge no no for a jw! wtf
Anyway, back in my elder days, during one of the CO visits and subsequent mandatory meeting with the elders, he shared an story which demonstrates the same stupid jw reasoning about which "sin" we decide is worse than the other. Here's the story;
A married 'brother,' who was also an 'elder', in a Texas congregation was having an affair with a married 'sister' in the congregation. This 'sister' had an "unbeliever" husband who was not a kind man. The affair was ongoing for some time before finally the 'sister' broke down and confessed to her "unbeliever" husband.
The enraged "unbeliever" husband waited till the Sunday meeting and then went to the Kingdumb Hell and shot the 'brother' who was screwing his wife! When the ambulance arrived at the KH to take the "brother" to the hospital, he could be heard by all in the congregation telling the EMT's "No blood! No blood! I do not accept blood!"
LOL LOL!
just saying!