HOMEWORK AND KIDS?

by morty 24 Replies latest jw friends

  • shamus
    shamus

    I completely agree that homework these days is outrageous! My niece, in grade 3, had homework EVERY NIGHT - including Saturdays and Sundays. It was unacceptable!!!

    They couldn't even give her 2 daze off.. Saturday Sunday. How stupid is that for sonmeone in grade 3. The only thing that it did was make her hate school.

    Oh, also, she had homework EVERY DAY of Xmas holidays, and every long weekend. It was in this little homework book thingy, and the parents had to sign it.

    If it were my kid, I would send it in every Monday with that homework not done, and tell her to stuff it. It still makes my blood boil just thinking about it!

  • shamus
    shamus
    How can the students learn respect if they don't receive it??

    I know exacly what you mean there! Teachers are not doing a good enough njob these daze! The govt is cutting back and teachers cannot do as much... it's catch 22.

  • Valis
    Valis

    *LOL* shamus...

    Sincerely,

    District Overbeer

  • morty
    morty

    I dont believe we are in Asia or India............

    mortons68

  • La Capra
    La Capra

    I graduated from a typical suburban school district, following a typical college-prep program that met the requirements for admission into University of California, in 1986. Starting in fourth grade I had a little more than an hour, daily. In 6th through 8th it settled into at least two hours nightly, occasionaly three, but usuallly around two. Once I got to high school, I considered it a good night when I could get everything done in three hours, but five was more the norm, and that did not include preparing for quizzes, tests, and the ever looming SATs. Once I got into college, most of the literature, science and social science I took was a reiteration of what had been covered in my high school classes, only slightly more in .depth. However, if I had gone the GED route, I would not have met the admission requirements to that university. I think at some point in the 80s there was a push for homework across all the grades, that it was going to improve achievement over the long term. As a high school teacher, I am in amazement of how the clear majority of students are coerced into the same college prep path. Many don't have the interest, inclination, and even for some the innate ability. For three years they invest all sorts of effort, doing all this homework, taking all these classes, and just missing the mark to get the grades/SATs to get into those four-year schools. In California there is a trend to dupe kids into believing that college is for everyone, when it really is not. They lose a lot of the high school experience, get no practical skills, and can't get into college. Anyway, I assign homework that mostly can be finished in class, except in honors courses. No matter what I assign, though, those honors kids still get it done in class...(or the next class...) Shoshana

  • franklin J
    franklin J

    Yes, I agree; my children also get what I consider to be a lot of homework.

    But it is reletive to the child and their abilities.

    My 12 year old daughter is exceptionally brite and is in all advanced placements ( definite scholarship material) she handles all the homework, reports and projects in a snap! We are never concerned.

    My 9 year old son, smart as a whip, would rather be out playing and requires constant supervision to complete assignments. This is a daily battle.

    Yes, there is much homework. However, look at the enormous amount that this generation has to learn. There is global competition in everything, and they have more contend with ( on many levels) than our generation.

  • shera
    shera

    I think sometimes there is too much work to be done at home.Whenever I try to help my daughter with her work,she gets fusturated because I'm not doing it the same way as the teachers.I agree with there being too much cutbacks but I know its not easy trying to play teacher at home. There is so many times my daughter would bring home work,and she didn't have a clue what to do. I asked her if the teacher explained it to her.Her reply was,"no". I had to look at it myself and try to explaine it to her and how it was to be done.

  • Mulan
    Mulan

    When our kids were in school, my only complaint about homework was the teacher expecting me to assist with their homework. It's a nice idea to get parents to do something with their kids, but I had 4 of them, and we were very busy in the congregation in those days, and going to meetings two nights a week, which meant the kids either had to have homework done before dinner (nearly impossible) or they had to do it after the meeting, which was when they needed to be in bed.

    I used to wonder about the parents who worked full time, possibly evening shifts and what those kids did to get their homework done, with parental assistance. I argued with a few of the teachers on that subject, but they wouldn't budge. They did expect the parents to help the kid.

  • Special K
    Special K

    Hey Morton 68..

    Hmm.

    One thing that helped my older kids to have less at home work was..

    starting in Grade 7 they had one marked in "Free" class every day. On their scheldule I crossed that out and wrote in "STUDY" class. I never refer to it as a Free.. I always call it their study class. In that 40 minutes they are expected to do any homework they have for the next day. Or, possibly study for a test that maybe coming up in the afternoon. Or if the Study Class is first thing in the morning .. they use it to finish homework from the night before.

    THIS has helped greatly.. and they are diligent in using this "STUDY CLASS" wisely.

    Hope that helps a bit.

    They have ample time then for all their sports and other extracurricular activities.

    Another rule in the house.. is no computers, T.V., or game machines when hey get home from school. That way they get all their homework done right after school and they don't get their minds hung up in the screens.

    Each kid is allowed 1 hour of computer or game machine per day.. in the evening.

    All weekend homework is done on Sunday morning. No screens on Sunday mornings.

    Hey.. it works for us. We have 3 kids.

    sincerely

    Special K

  • Frannie Banannie
    Frannie Banannie

    When I was raising school-aged children, I learned from the teachers that the Governments are putting more pressure on the educators for paperwork and LOTS of it....which requirement is being passed down to the students.

    IMHO, the added paperwork (homework) is not realistic....as an example, how many careers rely on the production of tons of paperwork that has to be done outside of the parameters of the job? None but a career in publishing or writing or advertising perhaps....perhaps if educators concentrated on reading and penmanship skills with quality in mind, rather than quantity, it would be a more realistic way of dealing with educating our youths.....

    Frannie B

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