Ladies and Gents:
How do you end a relationship with someone kindly and efficaciously? Limit your answers to relationships with someone you have been seeing for under 3 months.
Bradley
PS -- Don't ask!
"'Cause breakin up is hard to do...sha na na na na na..."
by logansrun 38 Replies latest social relationships
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Euphemism
Ouch, you're gonna get crucified for that comment Bradley.
As to your dilemma... it seems to me that straightforward and honest is best. Call her up, ask to talk to her in person, and tell her "I don't think we should see each other anymore because..." But maybe someone more experienced has other suggestions. The only thing I can say from my experience is that trying to remain friends is not generally a good idea. Doesn't mean you have to be enemies... just try and stay out of each other's way.
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Robdar
Bradley, I broke up with my last guy by email. It seems a little cold, doesn't it? Well, I had made up my mind and didn't want to discuss it with him for fear that he would try to get me to change my mind. I told him directly what the problem was, that I didn't want to date him anymore and I asked him not to contact me in the future. I was counting on his maturity level to cause him to honor my request. He did, btw.
Good luck. Life is too short to be unhappily mated.
R
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Stacy Smith
Well I appreciate a guy wants to know a good way to break up instead of the easy way. The easy way is to stop answering your phone and pretend you never met them.
You know her better than I do. I would suggest honesty. Maybe tell her in person. Maybe on the phone. For me I'd prefer a brief meeting during the day for such an unplesant event.
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proudassmonkey
can you just sit her down and have an honest (yet short) talk and tell her how you feel?
melissa