Thanks for your comments, because I can no longer be in my sisters life due to the WTS rule towards a disfellowshiped person I can only hope that she finds happiness. That is one thing I failed to mention that when this happened my sister was unhappy in her marriage. As she told me several times that she has tried to love her husband but because of things that went on yrs ago she lost her love for her husband.
Perhaps that is why she loves being the center of attention. Its just part of her personality, I guess. All things worked out though, because now her husband is in the org.(so she says), But still she feels unloved. As a child she had all the love and admiration of all and I suppose that is why she allowed herself to be drawn into this elders little game.
Well maybe Wednesday your right I should contact her and see how she and the family are doing and re-assure her of my undying love for them. It is heart wrenching when you can't speak to the people you love..I have thought of telling them I am ill, but I see to no avail as it will alter nothing with them. The are stringent JW. and keep every rule and regulation imposed by the Society. I know my sister has missed me very much as my aunt told me. She (aunt) has told me that she (sister) cries many times about it but still she must abide by her Biblical Consciense..
I don't really want to make them come to me, rather they come willingly. If you understand what I mean. Be it i am sick or not. I hope I have explained this better.
But in the conclusion of my thoughts, I do believe that with all sincerity that when brothers and sisters over do the hugs, I would be careful as it could lead to a disaster for all involved.
I my love to be hugged by men and I have no problem with it as I am a huge flirt, but all the wives of these men know me and I am no threat to any of them and Vice Versa.
As I expressed earliar, or in the chat last night, I don't remember, but I was feeling lousey yesterday and a little homesick for my family and so I didn't mean to come across as a vendictive person I just need to talk about what was important to me about them.
All my love;
Orangefatcat