I've only seen condescending ridicule here.
" rude and condescending" describes EVERONE here...
You are part of ever(Y)one, so by your own words you have condemned yourself. As they say in my part of the country, "If you do not like it, don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out!"
I would add that I do not believe anyone is holding a gun to your head forcing you to be here!