Anyway does anyone have some good resonable ideas as to what happens to us after we die?
The answer has been staring you in the face for years, but you have been blind to it. Here's a few quotes from your own JW Bible.
I suppose it starts with the fact, that your soul has never really died?
*** Rbi8 Proverbs 8:22 *** 22 ?Jehovah himself produced me as the beginning of his way, the earliest of his achievements of long ago.
Translation: You were mostly likely there too... right at the beginning when God created the heavens and the Earth. The above scripture is usually attributed to Jesus, but the text does not imply this.
*** Rbi8 Matthew 10:28 *** 28 And do not become fearful of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul; but rather be in fear of him that can destroy both soul and body in Ge·hen'na.
Translation: Your body dies - your soul does not (unless God decides to take it back.... I think you'd have to be a real hard-core bad-dude for this to happen, since God also makes the Sun shine on sinners, just as he does nice people.)
*** Rbi8 John 9:1-2 *** 9 Now as he was passing along he saw a man blind from birth. 2 And his disciples asked him: ?Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, so that he was born blind?
Translation: Jesus's disciples were fully aware of the cycle of rebirth of a soul when they asked Jesus the question above. They assumed (correctly) that the man had lived before, and this was yet another one of his lives. Jesus never once rebuked them for this thought, but did caution them against drawing incorrect conclusions about the laws of cause and effect, karma and grace.
*** Rbi8 Matthew 17:10-13 *** 10 However, the disciples put the question to him: ?Why, then, do the scribes say that E·li'jah must come first?? 11 In reply he said: ?E·li'jah, indeed, is coming and will restore all things. 12 However, I say to YOU that E·li'jah has already come and they did not recognize him but did with him the things they wanted. In this way also the Son of man is destined to suffer at their hands.? 13 Then the disciples perceived that he spoke to them about John the Baptist.
Question for reader: What thought process caused the disciples to induce that John the Baptist was once the soul known as Elijah? Note, that Jesus did not teach the disciples this concept in the above statement, the disciples were already able to draw the correct conclusion to Jesus' statement!!!
*** Rbi8 John 3:5 *** Jesus answered: ?Most truly I say to you, Unless anyone is born from water and spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
Translation: Your body will die (your soul will not), and you will be reborn again (and again, and again)... but it is far more important to concentrate of why you are reborn. Also note: Nicode'mus understood Jesus, but did not believe him, Jesus rebuked him for this.
The answer to your question lies in the Bible, not the WatchTower or Awake magazines. Throw them out, or start a fire!