It made me angry that we couldn't use "worldly" music for Rachel's wedding, and had to use those dumb Kingdom songs. Even back then, it made me angry.
Also, Rachel had a very close friend from school that she wanted to have in the wedding and of course that was a great big "NO" also. For some reason if you had a brother or a sister who wasn't a JW, they could be in it, but not your friends, no matter how good a person they were.
When I was a child, they couldn't wear wedding dresses, and only one attendant was allowed. I don't know when that changed, but I remember seeing my first wedding dress at a KH and that was so special. I was about 10 I think. One of my friends had the first wedding I can remember where there was more than one attendant. She had two.