I think the Society is extremely haughty, and many, but not most JWs are also.
What makes JWs unique (and contributes to their haughtiness) is that, unlike other religions, JWs think they have ALL the answers.
Most religions allow for the idea of leaving things in God's hands, not having to know God's will on every matter, and following conscience.
The society talks alot about conscience, but in reality they, in a way, demand that you use theirs.
If you have a question about anything from a to z, I mean anything,you are directed to research it ind the bound volumes of the Watchtower.
From the monumental (blood, what happens at death, disfellowshipping, doctrine, etc.) to the mundane( cell phone use, sports, how we dress, facial hair) they have the answer.
And where they say there is room for personal conscience, they actually word things so that you know exactly how you should view all matters almost to the letter. Conscience is really for rebels and those on the fringe.
And that is why they are so haughty..they have all the answers and they are God's channel .....yeah right.
LC