Marry Only in the Lord

by Rattigan350 17 Replies latest watchtower beliefs

  • blondie
    blondie

    Deut. 7:3,4

    Referring to not marrying Canaanites

    But here

    Deut. 21:10-14

  • 10 “If you go to war against your enemies and Jehovah your God defeats them for you and you take them captive,+ 11 and you see among the captives a beautiful woman and you are attracted to her and you want to take her as your wife, 12 you may bring her into your house. She should then shave her head, attend to her nails, 13 and remove the clothing of her captivity, and dwell in your house. She will weep for her father and her mother a whole month,+ and afterward you may have relations with her; you will become her husband and she will become your wife. 14 But if you are not pleased with her, you should then let her go+ wherever she wishes.* But you may not sell her for money or treat her harshly, since you have humiliated her.

  • ?

    Why was Esther promoted and allowed to marry a Persian king?

    So how does the WTS tap dance around that?

    Imitate book, p. 135

    Why did Mordecai allow Esther to marry a pagan unbeliever?

    There is no basis for the suggestion of some scholars that Mordecai was an opportunist who wanted Esther to wed the king for the sake of prestige. As a faithful Jew, he would not have favored such a marriage. (Deut. 7:3) Ancient Jewish tradition holds that Mordecai tried to prevent the marriage. It seems unlikely that either he or Esther, mere foreigners in a land ruled by an autocrat who held a godlike status, would have had much choice in the matter. In time, it became clear that Jehovah used Esther’s marriage as a means of protecting his people.—Esther 4:14.

  • Rattigan350
    Rattigan350

    His reasoning was totally wrong.

    He started out talking about God's Commandments not being burdensome if we love God. If that is the case then marrying a Witness will lead to happiness. I did that but I don't have that.

    Also, they focus on the negatives, but if it is not burdensome, there should not be negatives for marrying Witnesses, there should only be positives.

    As for Deut if they wanted to marry NonIsraelites, why would Jehovah care? it is one or two people out of a million. And as for serving the Canaanite gods, that would mean they would choose the losing side. Did Hitler give any commands that his soldiers could not marry Polish people whom they invaded? Would the Polish want to get with invaders? Would the Germans switch to the losing side?

  • TD
    TD

    Researchedandenlighened:

    ...so what do builders/welders/window cleaning men in suits know about guidance for marriage

    I was going to say, "No more than any other trades people," but even that is too charitable.

    LongHairGal:

    The religion frowns on this because it knows once a woman is married the nervy elders can't readily go up to her like before

    LOL - No. In my experience, JW elders are terrified of unbelieving husbands...

  • Steel
    Steel

    I was actually in the kh when they marked my wife. Still pisses me off to even think about it.

    Uhhh.

    I have made a promise to myself to take shit on that guys grave when he dies.

  • Cold Steel
    Cold Steel
    Stuckinarut2 » Wow, so he actually said this was a "marking" talk? That is not supposed to happen nowadays.

    What's a "marking talk" ?


  • smiddy
    smiddy

    " Marry only in the Lord ? How many failed marriages of jehovahs witnesses do you know of in your circle of friends .I think I have run out of fingers and toes to count from 1960 till now of so many failed marriages in the so called "truth"

    Two within my own family.

    And the reasons are just as diversified as any in the real world....Infidelity ,Incompatability ,etc,etc,

    So ,are JW`s any more moral than worldly people ?....No ,because of the above reasons.

    Do they have a better record of marriage success than worldly people ? judging by my experience and knowledge no ,I have been in more than 6 congregations in my 32 years in the religion and i have witnessed first hand marital breakups among brothers and sisters.in these congregations.

    and I cant believe these were just isolated one offs that were not happening all over the world.

    How about you and your congregation ? any similarities ?

  • roberto avon
    roberto avon

    My wife had " a marking talk " almost 30 years ago. Not only, they tried to push some single brothers to candidate themselves, one in particulary had a crush on her. We married at the townhall, no Jws present except one elderly couple ( so thankful they came, it meant a lot to me ).

  • scratchme1010
    scratchme1010

    That starts so much gossip.

    As always. The only difference is that this time was not covert. Gossip is the flesh and blood of every cult. It's what keeps people in control, afraid and therefore, obedient.

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