Fisherman: What I find incredible is how people only object to the setting. I suppose it would be ok for some people if a person confessed child abuse to a Catholic priest or a pastor or somebody else other than a jw elder. That is ok as long as that person remains secret about it. Say a couple of hail maries and hush is the word and that is ok vs the same man confessing the sin under a JC setting, that is not ok. Makes a lot of sense.
What is truly incredible is that anybody thinks that a judicial process, where the JW elders seek out a potential offender and seek out evidence that will prove or disprove the offender's guilt or innocence - after a potential victim lays a complaint - is anywhere near the same as a penitent seeking out a priest for abolition of what they personally feel are their perceived sins. That is what is incredible.
It is not the setting per se, Fisherman, it is the processes themselves, and the intent, which are entirely different.
*to add - in the "setting" that you are describing (and I assume that to be a Catholic confessional after your reference to hail mary's), the clergy never goes out and tries to establish guilt of the one confessing, the priest never seeks out a confession for what they may perceive to be a sin, the clergy never investigates a person who confesses, they don't go out and gather witnesses and go to the victim to ask them to confront the one who "confessed". There is no accusation process in the setting that you are trying to compare the JWs investigation process to.