Kran
Its my parents decision really not mine..
OK. You haven't answered whether you're still a JW or not but that doesn't matter. The point is, many of us here are healing from years - even lifetimes - as JWs. I was a baptised JW for 15 years, plus I associated with them for 4 years prior to my baptism. We were told how God frowns on pagan celebrations, such as Christmas and birthdays, etc. Then, we came to our senses and realised that what Watchtower had been telling us about Christ's kingdom being set up in 1914, that our parents would not grow old and die and that we would still be alive at Christ' coming, that the Governing Body are spiritually directed and part of the 144,000, that Jerusalem fell in 607 BCE, etc., was nothing but an absolute pack of lies!!! That's a fact!
Therefore, after our lives had been robbed of so much we have all decided that it's jolly well fine to celebrate Christmas, Easter, birthdays, etc. Indeed, it's even healthy to celebrate them.
I'm sorry if you are not yet in the swing of the Christmas spirit. This will be my family's first Christmas for 19 years (but minus my two daughters who are still JWs and who are shunning us for leaving). I very much hope you come to find the truth about Watchtower. It can be a very painful road, but the end result is worth it.
Please stick around and read the many posts here. Search the archives to learn about the utter folly of Watchtower. There are many exelders here plus exCOs and DOs. We are NOT the enemy - as you will find out.
We all wish you well and hope that you'll at least enjoy the holidays.
Best wishes,
Ian, Claire and Family