? Have you ever had the book study overseer offer to work with you in field service and give helpful pointers or tips?
This one got me. When I was in, faithful to JWism and pioneering, it usually came about that any and all brothers/elders/ms that showed up for field service went by themselves in one cargroup, and sent the sisters and children together in other cargroup. Even if there was room for one or two or even three more in the cargroup, they still wouldn't take a load of sisters.
Being quite outspoken, (which amazingly never got me in trouble, I guess I never spoke out against anything they could argue with,) I used to speak with the elders, pioneer brothers, circuit overseers, anyone really, including once GB member George Couch's right hand man Bob Rains, about how the "spiritual shepherds" really should mix it up a little and work with the sisters in service to encourage them. In one congregation where I was still pioneering and respected, (although I suspect the "respect" had more to do with the fact that my dad was a respected elder,) SOME of the brothers would break up the cliques and put a brother in each cargroup. Interestingly, when this started happening, the attendance in field service exploded. We would have multiple cargroups out on any given day of the week, morning AND afternoons. Even Sundays would usually see at least 3 or 4 full carloads.
Just shows how the dubbies are starving for real support instead of being beaten over the head with the "do more, do more" stick.
Clearly nothing has changed though. Just a couple of weeks ago, my dad called up on a weekday morning. He wanted to stop by and have coffee. When he got there he was all dressed up for door-knocking. I asked him what happened. He said he was the only brother that showed up, so he opted out of the cargroup and let the sisters go by themselves. Big sigh.
How can the shepherds train and teach if they can't even work in the same group with women and children? They are hierarchical and elitist, whether they can see it or not. "Fine shepherds," indeed.
Odrade
p.s., my husband just read this and wants to add: The J-duds have tools, all those brothers, they're a bunch of tools... LMAO!