And sleeping with 14 year old children is alright, loving and caring is one of the most important things.
I can clearly recall my thoughts and feelings at the age of 14, even though that was 33 years ago. The very thought of an adult (any adult, including pop stars) wanting to sleep in the same bed with me would have been utterly revolting!
But im pretty sure Jesus Christ was chilling with 14 year old children.....
There are Biblical accounts of Jesus "chilling" with children, but that does not in any way justify allowing adults (most especially unrelated adults) sleeping in the same bed with them.
As regards MJ still being a JW, I would be interested to hear what J.R. Brown has to say on the subject.