Hi....I am new

by fusion1975 28 Replies latest jw friends

  • waiting
    waiting

    Hi fusion,

    Welcome to our forum! As for your husband? I'm sure he doesn't understand.....he wasn't raised in a cult-like environment most likely. You were. Therefore, you most likely still have emotional ties/questions/negative vibes.

    Like us all here. We are a motley crew......as you already have observed.

    Glad you decided to join us.

    waiting

  • Sassy
    Sassy

    Welcome to JWD Fusion! Hopefully you will find time to post more now that you have taken the plunge and posted!

  • Winston Smith :>D
    Winston Smith :>D

    Hi Fusion,

    Welcome!

    Though I do have to shut it down when ever my spouse enters the room.

    Do what I do.

    When the spouse walks into the room, pop up another browser window with hardcore porn on it.

    Much easier to explain away than looking at 'apostate' sites.

    Although I don't fully understand why a non-JW mate would get upset with you looking at a DB RE: your past religous beliefs *shrug*

    I guess if they were never in a cult, it is hard for them to fully understand a JW survivor's mindset.

    Thx for posting!

  • micheal
    micheal

    Hi Fusion, great to have yah

  • Tinkerbell4125
    Tinkerbell4125

    Welcome Fusion! Everyone here is right about *worldly* people not understanding a j.w. suvivor. I don't think you could understand unless you were in it!

    Sometimes I get real busy and I just can't get here, but something always pulls me back. I have alot of appreciation for Simon. This board has helps me and so many. Hope it helps you too!

    Welcome my friend.

    Tink

  • LittleToe
    LittleToe

    Welcome

    I don't know if it's possible, but if you can explain that it's part of your healing, might he understand?
    "Reacting" and closing browser windows, when he enters the room, is likely to cause suspicion and paranoia. It might have a detrimental effect on your relationship.

  • dh
    dh

    hi fusion, welcome to the board.

    I was raised in the truth

    ahem, you mean 'the false'!!!

    hope to see more of your posts!

    dh'

  • DanTheMan
    DanTheMan

    Welcome! You're among friends.

  • DevonMcBride
    DevonMcBride

    Hello Fusion and welcome.

    Devon

  • JamesThomas
    JamesThomas

    Welcome, Fusion.

    alt

    j

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