Well Nina and I already knew Jesika from when she was a child, and we all hooked up together again on the Silent Lambs guest book. But the first apostafest we went to was October 2002 at Gloria's. I was a little nervous about going, and Nina and I went with the expectation that we would be ignored like we were at JW gatherings, so we were only going to stay for a few minutes and then have a quiet dinner out together.
When we walked in a tall, lanky dude in dreadlocks, and on his second six-pack, walked up to us and gave us the biggest hug. Valis introduced us to everyone. Let's see if I can remember who was there, Six, Megadude, Elsewhere, Shuterbug(?), XW, Heaven, Jesika, JoeSchmo, Nativenyr23 -- I know I'm missing people!
Anyway, we had a grand time and ended up staying for several hours. It meant a lot to both of us that we just accepted for who we were. No judgment, no one looking down their nose. What a difference!
Our JW babysitter wasn't too happy when we got home at 11:30, since she said she wasn't going to get enough sleep to stay awake for the Watchtower study in the morning!