my sister asked for help..haahaha

by the mole 15 Replies latest watchtower beliefs

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  the mole

  hi everyone, im back....sorry for the long pause. doing the ot at work...............here is my latest update on my sister and family rejecting me...........

  ** remember when me and my sister argued why i dont want go to meetings? then she told me she doesnt want to speak to my anymore. Well, she called me this last weekend to help her with her phone bill. I work for a major fon company and she needed advice and if there are any of my coworkers that could help her. she failed to read her invoices and although the error was with my company months had past and her bill was very high, 700.00 worth of bill....being rejected for having an opinion on many issues i have with the org as created a situation that my family now avoids and whispers that im apostate. my sister was so distraut over her bill she even invited over for dinner and came to my home..out of loving kindness i looked into her issue but after 5 months no one can do anything but i asked her why didnt she call earlier? she stated she thought everything was fine and didnt realize the error untill several bills came for a total $784.56 and going to collections...i told her she should have called my to review the error and i would have advised my supervisor to review it but she didnt call me...my kids are first to tell me they think it was because of all the jw stuff and questions i posed to my sister and me stepping down from being an m.s.....what do you people think?
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  blondie

  You reap what you sow sometimes.
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  shotgun

  Maybe she should let Jehovah handle it, in his due time of course.
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  Euphemism

  One the one hand, it's kind of sad that she only broke the silence when her pocketbook was involved. One other hand, it's good that she knew that you would be there for her.

  I say, kudos to you for still trying to help her.
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  blondie

  I didn't want to seem mean, and I wasn't, but I wonder if this breakthrough will continue or if she will go back to her previous stance. Believe, I've been there, helped someone out of a big jam, and then a month later it's as if I don't exist.

  Blondie
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  95stormfront

  Maybe she should let Jehovah handle it, in his due time of course.

  Exactly......

  Now that she's played the shunning game to her detriment, nnnoooowwwww she wants to come to you in her time of need when it's gonna hit her financially. Funny is it how JWs will always have a change of heart toward an apostate relative when they need them for financial gain.

  Try to guage what her plans are as to how she'll treat you once this crisis is over, and if it's not to your liking, tell her to not run ahead of the organization and to "wait on Jehovah"!!!
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  gypsywildone

  Lol@shotgun!

  I have an xjw friend who goes through this s^*% all the time, family treats her very bad, but comes running when they need a favor. It is sad.
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  crinklestein

  I agree with everyone here. Tell her to be mindful, approach Jehovah prayerfully and humbly and to wait on Jehovah for he will settle all matters in due time.
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  ThiChi

  You are doing the right thing here. Be the bigger person, show her what unconditional love is, compared to the JW institutional love......
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  fairy

  Maybe she should let Jehovah handle it, in his due time of course

  I loved your answer shotgun!!