Have you undergone psychometric testing to see what kind of personality you are?
The following emode test is free, and will help identify your personality type:
http://web.tickle.com/tests/classiccareer/
(You may have to use: http://web.tickle.com/common/search.jsp?search=career+personality and choose the "Career Personality Test").
There's intrepretive advice here:
http://www.teamtechnology.co.uk/tt/t-articl/mb-simpl.htm
I'm an INFJ:
The INFJ takes his/her energy from the inner world of thoughts and emotions. He/she prefers dealing with patterns and possibilities, particularly for people, and makes decisions using personal values. His/her life is organised on a personal basis. He/she often has a private sense of purpose in life, and works steadily to fulfil that goal. He/she demonstrates a quiet concern for people, being interested in helping them to develop and grow. He/she is good at developing insight into people, though it can often remain unexpressed.