When my kids were young, they're now 27 and 25, they had to go to the meetings with their dad and step mom. I was disfellowshipped and completely out. After a weekend with their JW stepmom they practically tripped over each other when they got home to my house to turn the Smurfs on. Their dad was physically and verbally abusing them and their stepmom (and me when I was married to him) but by all means they couldn't watch the Smurfs. Needless to say my children are not Wittys.