I, like you, wondered about this also. Why would a God who supposedly gave his creations free will, set up a test, then punish Eve, whom the Bible clearly states WAS DECEIVED with eternal death? If God is just and loving, why would he impose the death sentence and the curse of painful childbirth for someone who was deceived (some use the arguement that it was Eve's imperfection that caused her pain, not a curse from God-but by whose standards was she considered to be imperfect)?If he was the only almighty God, why would there be any need for a test in the first place?Why did he not trust his creative abilities well enough to let Adam and Eve use their own judgement? If he truly had love for his creations and put them on the earth so that they could live forever in paradise with their families, and spread it over the entire earth, why did he change his mind? Why does he require exclusive devotion?
If he was truly concerned about his position and needing to have exclusive devotion, why didn't he just create people who were automotons, instead of telling Adam and Eve, "okay, I'm giving you the right to decide, but if you choose to not do as I ask, I'm going to end your life. Is that truly free will, or loving? It was a piece of fruit. True, he reportedly let them live out their greatly shortened lifespans, but what about the "millions who lives will be cut off at Armageddon?"
I've been researching the tree of life motif, and have learned that it is common to most societies.There is usually a test involved with tree motifs, but blind obedience is not usually required. Sure, some will argue that the other societies just copied it from the Bible account (they use that arguement for the flood, too), but many of the texts are actually older than the Bible (but then again Bible historians dispute that too).
Most societies view the tree of life as an allegory of the human condition. The trunk is seen as everyday life, the roots are viewed as the unconscious, the inner man, or the dark side of human nature (depending on the tradition), and the branches are viewed as the spiritual aspect.Fruit is generally seen as knowledge from or communion with the gods.Maybe the message in Genesis is an allegory that God wanted Adam and Eve to prove their loyalty to him alone, before he was willing to commune with them or impart any spiritual knowledge.
Personally, I'm waiting for God to explain it to me himself. If he takes offense because I'm genuinely confused, I guess I'm toast, like 2/3 of the world.