Hhehe if anyone tells you, let me know will ya? I have the same problem although I haven't had any offers. I know my problem is no self confidence. I am too busy thinking about how I must be the bloodiest ugly woman on earth as absolutley no one ever appraoches me and stuff.
Infact I know I am so ugly. I went to a lesbian dance unbeknowst to myself that that is what it was and the room was full of really ugly women but theya ll had great personalities. I didn't even get any offers there (not that I wanted any!)
So even though I go out and try nothing ever happens. I end up dancing with the women friends in groups. I dunnno. I am beginning to think it just aint worth the effort! That I am meant to be alone and that no one will ever even ask me for a dance!