Thank you, thank you, His will be done!
The divorce is settled (YAY!), Colleen got a decent amount of spousal support, no title to the house but it was in his name only (don't DO that ladies!) and so the debt and the bad credit rating is all his, she will get half of their investments/retirement account, and health insurance will be in effect for a period of 3 (I think) years, and title to the truck. And she gets her birth name back.
You guys are wonderful, thanks for responding to my call.
Love,
out