Updates on Silentlambs

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  • blondie
    blondie

    I encourage you to check out the website or signup for the newsletter. But I will be posting articles here and my comments on opportunities available to fight child abuse in your neighborhood. This appeared in several papers today.

    http://www.fortwayne.com/mld/fortwayne/news/local/8330442.htm



    Posted on Thu, Apr. 01, 2004


    Religion Today

    RICHARD N. OSTLING
    Associated Press

    NASHVILLE, Tenn. - They're an all-volunteer organization with little money, and could only muster two dozen attendees to their first national meeting last weekend. But a group called silentlambs has still gained visibility in its campaign to change the sexual abuse policies of Jehovah's Witnesses.

    Founder William Bowen says silentlambs exists to educate the public and "give a voice to survivors of child sexual abuse that had been silenced by the institution of Jehovah's Witnesses."

    The group claims rules of the Witnesses protect child molesters: The Witnesses, however, insist that they are committed to doing everything their faith allows to prevent abuse.

    Meanwhile, the whole situation highlights the fact that, while the clergy sex abuse crisis in the Roman Catholic Church has dominated headlines the past two years, smaller American religious bodies are dealing with variations on the same problem.

    The Hare Krishnas, with 100,000 devotees in the United States and Canada, are working on a settlement with 540 students who claim they were abused in boarding schools while their parents were practicing the faith by chanting and begging. A $400 million suit by 91 of them drove the Hindu group into bankruptcy.

    In a trial scheduled to open Monday in Marshall, Texas, Evangelical Lutheran Church in America agencies, including an Ohio seminary, are charged with negligence in ordaining a pastor who molested 14 boys.

    And the upcoming Presbyterian Church (USA) assembly will discuss rules to tighten handling of abuse allegations after a case in which a missionary molested 19 girls.

    The Jehovah's Witnesses dispute involves a highly insular community of 1 million U.S. followers of the Watchtower Bible and Tract Society, whose unique doctrines include a belief that the end times are imminent. Adherents are famed for door-to-door distribution of Awake! and Watchtower magazines.

    The Governing Body at Brooklyn, N.Y., headquarters commands not only an obedient flock but formidable finances and a corps of trial-hardened attorneys.

    Their opponents are motivated by what some say is a problem comparable with, or even worse than, the scale of abuse by Catholic clergy.

    Bowen founded silentlambs three years ago after he quit as an elder in Draffenville, Ky., saying Watchtower took no action against an alleged molester. He charged that the group's rules created a "pedophile paradise."

    The central issue is the Witnesses' policy of first bringing accusations of any sin to local elders. If an accused person denies the charge, two credible witnesses are required to establish guilt - due to literal application of such Bible verses as Deuteronomy 19:15 ("only on the evidence of two witnesses, or of three witnesses, shall a charge be sustained").

    Philip Brumley, Watchtower's general counsel, says his religion cannot alter its beliefs and doubts secular courts will demand this.

    "Do you change doctrine because someone feels something is more convenient, even if it's not in harmony with Scripture?" he asks.

    But getting two witnesses in a molestation case "just goes off the scale of improbability," Bowen says.

    And if two witnesses are lacking, the accused is deemed innocent, charges remain confidential and - silentlambs says - parents who warn others are subject to disfellowshipping for slander.

    Disfellowshipping - also the fate of some silentlambs whistle-blowers - is an extreme penalty that means a total cutoff of relationships by family members, friends and business associates who are Witnesses. Silentlambs notes that during the Catholic crisis, no parishioner has been penalized for raising complaints.

    Former Witness Heather Berry, of Claremont, N.H., said that when she was molested by her father, a "ministerial servant" in the congregation, local elders told her mother "to pray more and Jehovah would take care of it." Others at the Nashville meeting of silentlambs had similar stories.

    Often "the victim is taken to a back room with guys who don't know diddly-squat about rape investigation," complains Bowen, who insists all allegations should be referred immediately to police.

    Silentlambs also says Witnesses discourage police involvement because they believe Satan controls everything outside the faith.

    However, official Watchtower policy states that victims have the right to file secular charges, and that elders report allegations to police where state laws require this.

    Witnesses headquarters says it must follow what the Bible teaches, and that includes the belief that "child abuse is abhorrent." It points to a 1997 Watchtower article stating that, except for a few instances, proven molesters are barred from congregational leadership or full-time work.

    The conflict escalated in mid-2002 when Kimberlee Norris, a tenacious Fort Worth, Texas, attorney, began working full-time on Witnesses litigation. She has since filed suits for 47 alleged victims in California, Nevada, Oregon and Texas, with 20 more cases in the pipeline.

    Norris targets Watchtower organizations and alleged abusers who are leaders in local congregations. She told the silentlambs she culled the strongest cases from 2,000 people who contacted her, making accusations against 729 Witnesses.

    She says the Witnesses' policy will change only when "the cost is too much, in the court of law or in the court of public opinion."

    Eventually, Norris plans to get testimony from Barbara Anderson of Tullahoma, Tenn. Now disfellowshipped, Anderson says that, while working as a Witnesses headquarters researcher, she compiled an inch-thick dossier about believers' child abuse and other psychological maladies that went to the Governing Body in 1992.

    Says Anderson: "Yes, they knew (about abuse), and didn't do a thing about it."

    ON THE NET

    Silentlambs: http://www.silentlambs.org

    Jehovah's Witnesses official child protection memo:

    http://www.jw-media.org/newsroom/index.htm?contentbackground.htm

  • kls
    kls

    Blondie, i have been in contact with Silentlambs , thanking them for the wonderful work they are doing. I would like to thank you and all who are the voice of these children. If it were not for people like you and all that contribute, this would not be brought to everyones knowledge. The article was in our local paper but most jws still think it is all lies and they are being tested. Hard to believe a bunch of old men can control a persons emotions into callus drons.

  • avishai
    avishai
    "Do you change doctrine because someone feels something is more convenient, even if it's not in harmony with Scripture?"

    Thy've already done this, many times. Idiots

  • blondie
    blondie

    kls, my contributions are small, very small, but I will be getting more involved in my local area. Unfortunately, even non-JWs respond to abuse cases with some reluctance to believe, especially if it is someone they know or a family member.

    Avishai, the WTS counts on the media not to have an indepth knowledge of doctrinal flipflops. I talked with some last weekend, and they were astonished at what the WTS leaves out of their press info and contacts.

    Blondie

  • blondie
    blondie

    I highlighted what I plan on doing. You might have some other ideas.

    Silentlambs

    www.silentlambs.org 877-WTABUSE

    April is child abuse awareness month!

    Suggestions on what we might do to raise abuse awareness in our local communities

    ? Go by local abuse organizations and drop off information about silentlambs and ask if they would like to have a video for their library. Offer to bring by copies of silentlambs brochures that are printable off the website.

    ? Find out what events are going to be talking place in the local community such as walks or other gatherings and wear a silentlambs t-shirt and bring video and brochures to distribute or loan out to those interested in reviewing.

    ? ?Friendly? honk when you drive by a Kingdom Hall during the month of April.

    ? Distribute brochures to public places that offer information ask permission if required to do so. To downolad brochures click here

    ? March with silentlambs in Washington DC on April 17 th of this year.

    ? Offer the silentlambs abuse awareness program to local institutions in your area.

    ? Join your local rape abuse hotline or shelter and participate in their education programs to be accredited to volunteer and offer assistance to other abuse survivors.

    ? Wear a silentlambs pin where ever you go and explain to those who see it what it stands for.

    ? Write your story of abuse to the local newspaper or television station and ask if they want to do a story.

    ? Leave the ?If your child becomes a victim? silentlambs material along with a stuffed lamb on Kingdom Halls and other churches in your area.

  • avishai
    avishai

    bttt

  • hawkaw
    hawkaw

    BTTT

  • xjw_b12
    xjw_b12
    they are committed to doing everything their faith allows to prevent abuse.

  • waiting
    waiting
    Jehovah's Witnesses provide an excellent example of policy gone wrong.'' - Bill Bowen

    This is a great - diplomatic way - to word this situation. The policy? Two witnesses. And works decently in *some* situations. But the policy is out of touch with the reality of child abuse......which is secretive to the point of threatening death to the child or their family, or their pets. And that works with abused, frightened, children.

    Group renews charge that Jehovah's Witnesses indifferent to sexual abuse

    03-26-04

    By BRIAN LEWIS
    Staff Writer

    Local Jehovah's Witness leaders are ignoring requests to meet with survivors of sexual abuse and their advocates, an organization calling for change in the church's policies on sexual abuse said.

    Bill Bowen, national director of Silent Lambs, said sexual abuse in Jehovah's Witness congregations is ''an epidemic that's got to stop. Jehovah's Witnesses provide an excellent example of policy gone wrong.''

    He was speaking outside a west Nashville Kingdom Hall, as the Jehovah's Witness churches are called. Silent Lambs also is sponsoring a conference on combating ''ignorance and apathy when it comes to sexual abuse'' tomorrow and Sunday at the Sheraton Music City Hotel, 777 McGavock Pike.

    J.R. Brown, a spokesman for the national Jehovah's Witness organization, said that while accusations had been made that the church was shielding pedophiles, they had not been proved. If members commit sexual abuse, they can be excommunicated, Brown said.

    The role of a church leader is to help a person spiritually, not prosecute someone for a secular crime, Brown said. Consequently, church leaders report to secular authorities only in states where they are required to do so by law, he said.

    ''Generally, the purpose of a cleric or minister is to entertain confessions of sin the person has committed and try to help the individual restore their relationship with God,'' Brown said. ''I don't know of any religious organization that has required all of its ministers to report every case of child abuse.''

    However, some religious organizations, including the Roman Catholic Church, do require clergy to report all cases of sexual abuse to the police.

    Also at the news conference, Silent Lambs presented an award to Jeff Walden of Nashville for speaking out about the abuse that he suffered as a child in a Memphis Jehovah's Witness congregation.

    ''If you speak out in this religion, you have to leave your life behind you and move on,'' said Walden, who said his experience as a Witness had turned him off to organized religion.

    Brian Lewis writes about religion, faith and values. He can be reached at 259-8077 or [email protected] .

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  • waiting
    waiting

    A Methodist minister told me that the Methodist Church had the same policy as the Catholics - ALL sexual abusers are to be reported to the police.

    JR Brown is wrong.

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