Part of me would love to get d/f'd . I would like to remain aloof, in a "See if I care" attitutude. And what is more, it would clear the air.
OK I do not witness, do not answer up if I attend, and cannot stomach singing the songs.. As you know, I certainly do not believe it and I take pleasure when I can warn somebody off and direct them to the internet sites. But I remain largely silent among the congo.
Frankly although I would bear the title "Apostate" with a sense of honour. It is just not worth:-
1] Causing a lot of upset to my wife and extended family
2} Have my wife be told to have limited association with me
3] Being excluded from family events
4} Possibly a seperation or divorce and losing my home
So on balance, yes I would care , although I would just love to stick it to them