I was under the impression that an apostate was anyone who left the Witnesses, was DF'ed/DA'ed, or was just actively opposed to them. But I was reading in my hubby's old "Reasoning Book" that an apostate is one who professes to believe in Christ (but not the JWs), claims to serve God (but is not a JW), tries to pull away current JWs or attack them.
So, by that definition, would someone who fades away and professes no religion still be considered an apostate if he or she didn't try to take anyone with them and did not attack the religion?
(I have my husband in mind, of course, as in the back of my mind there will always be that his fading will explode in our faces and we will lose the whole darn family.)
But then... I guess holidays would be considered "professing to believe in Christ"? I don't think so, personally, as we do a quiet (very small) Christmas with no religious acts/symbols. We are happily unreligious.
Just thinking out loud here... Thanks.
SLM