Hi Pintail.....welcome as a newcomer.
I don't want to sound too argumentive, but you might want to look at the things you mentioned in a different way.
Gods name. Would it surprise you to know that christendom uses that name all the time? Their songbooks are full of songs with his name. Most all christians I have ever known, know of the name Jehovah and that it is god.
his hope for mankind upon the earth . Most of the christian faiths I am familiar with believe in a reign on the earth for a thousand years with christ and his church. The only difference with the witnesses in this instance is only the great crowd will live there with Jesus in heaven ruling over it. Do you think god should kill all of christendom if they are misunderstood on this? What if the witnesses are wrong, should god kill them if they were misguided?
to learn he hears me when I pray and that I don't need someone else to do it for me. All of christendom believes this too. You can bet that every christian you will talk to prays to god privately. Why not ask them yourself.
That Jesus truly did redeem me from my sins. Actually the witnesses do not teach this. If your sins were redeemed, you would not have to redeem yourself from dying at armageddon contingent on your obeidience. Do you know what redeem means? Look up redeem, compare what you need to do according to the witness belief to attain salvation at armageddon as pointed out in the watchtower, then see if the two match. See if you are redeemed Now.......or later on AFTER you are obiedient through Armaggedon, the end of the thousand year reign, then being obeidient AFTER even the 1000 years. See if you are ever REALLY redeemed.
That there is honestly hope for my dead sister and father. Christians also have hope for the dead.
and that the only true justice comes from Jehovah, he will repay. Actually you said Jehovah will bring future justice when the Society and even christendom realise that Jesus is gods appointed ruler and HE will bring justice on his own accord. His dad turned things over to him....remember. Jesus knows how to met out justice without sitting there waiting for his dad to give him orders. Kings don't take orders....they give them.
I say all of this from a biblical perspective and not my own. You will find you have been led to believe your faith is special and that others faiths are meaningless which is an additude the pharisees had toward others besides themselves. I hope you stick around to learn some new things.
Gumby