I had dinner with my devout JW in-laws last night, (and the night before, and the night before, aaargh, long story) anyways, I was dying to bring this up, but my 10 and 11 y.o. JW niece and nephew were there too and I didn't want to make those kinds of waves. Their parents are wavering in their faith I think, and I didn't want to traumatize the kids and force the parents to defend JW actions.
BUT, I would have loved to hear my in-laws trying to defend this huge boondoggle.
Odrade