welcome! i read your story the other day when our dear Randy posted about it here. (I love that man, btw! :) he's an angel if such things exist :)
you're already a member without knowing it of a growing 'club'...the "they got me as a zygote" club. if i hadn't had the misfortune of being exposed to the borg from conception, they would not likely have gotten me as an adult. i believed it because i was raised to know nothing else. fortunately, my child has it better.
hugs to you and welcome, hope you find strength in numbers here. i have had more genuine kindness and concern come into my life through exjw's (so called low apostates) than i ever did from the 'loving brothers'.
your dear mother..poor thing. what happened to her is wrong on so many levels i can't even begin to say.
hugs,
fleur