The jw I dated had lots of money and seemed to take the religion pretty much a la carte. When it was to his advantage he'd play the religion card, but he seemed to get away with a lot. By that I mean he owned and flew an ultralight, spent lots of time at the airport with non jws, slept with me (although they didn't know that), traveled to Europe 2x to take his non jw mom to France, spends a lot of time visiting his mom in FL. Just a lot of things that don't line up with what I read on here would have been accepted in the cong.
He likes to flash the cash around-pays with hundred dollar bills -even at Waffle House (how tacky is that?). If he made big donations to the WT and local cong, and made it known how much he was giving could he get away with more? He hung around them for 14 years before he was finally baptised.
I'm confused as to how he manged that?
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