I can't wait to get hold of a copy of this - to show the smug elder who brings mum's mags...
*Why* is it that the org didn't just reply "*No* this does *not* refer to Christmas and birthdays" - I'm sure not so long ago they would have. I'm sure the person who wrote asking believes that they're now a conscience issue, well got that perspective on it to begin with anyway (probably until elders told them off!).
It seems like they screwed up by not reseaching Pinatas (and before that there were letters about whether it's OK for a Christian to go to a Luau wasn't there) and instead of saying "whoops, yeah, they're evil, our fault" - they're seemingly digging themselves into a bigger hole but at the same time saying it's still wrong - but at the same time saying it's not *currently* wrong. It's a muddle.
I read out the quote from the original thread to my mum and she just looked stunned - I said "well that clears things up!" jokingly and she said "it's very confusing" *seriously*. Hehe I think she's been away from JWs for too long if she's seeing what's written rather than what is *menat*! Well at least she didn't seem to feel too guilty when we had a day out with friends for my birthday last week!